Wedding from my point of View

Recently, it just happen that i have a lot friends and family getting married. I must confess, weddings are such a beautiful experience and ceremony as the case maybe. Starting from the imagination that one is about to enter into a life long relationship with the person you love is very beautiful *toexperienceonehopefullysoon
I've had priviledges of directly witnessing beautiful beginnings, starting from my sister to my best friend, a couple of other friends as well as my cousin. The joy is simply infectous and cant be described by any other person but the couple involved alone.
I've also observed a special Grace on the  bride, over and over again i've seen this. The peace and tranquility of their hearts, their beauty and joy; no matter how bad the makeup is, they always come out looking so beautiful. Though can be a hectic planning process most especially in a Nigerian society but the joy and fulfillment it brings cant be compared.
Hopefully, i'll be writing about mine soon but till then do observe Brides around you at weddings or as they plan.

Talk later
Olufunke

New Form Entertainment

Helllooooo......

 Lately, I've been such a social media geek *covers face. Don't judge me, that's my own of entertaining myself and in fact it has become or would i say replaced newspaper, tv and even class lessons. I've been so entertained and I've also learnt a lot on social media platform.

It's so bad or would i say so good that, I can laugh out so loudly all by myself by just watching those 15mins skits, reading memes or even going through comments especially on Bellanaija.com. These platform Instagram for instagram for instance has enabled me to know more and be more adventurous without breaking a leg. I've been able to build a mood board of my aspirations and things I admire with the help of various pictures posted, Thanks IG *muahhh. So, my post today is just to share a few of my favorite social media pages across all the available networks. 

Here you go and i also hope you enjoy and learn too.

1. Bellanaija.com http://www.bellanaija.com/- that's my favorite of all the blogs in Nigeria, that's my lifestyle magazine and all in one *lol 

2. Linda Ikeja http://www.lindaikejisblog.com/ - not that am a fan of Linda but i just like the fact that she posts any and everything. So you can check her out as well

3. Mail Online http://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/index.html - I'm so sure my day or morning won't be complete without browsing through mail online, that's my international news deck

4. Instagram- Seriously i can go on and on about IG. The list is endless, I follow more people than the people who follow me. I really don't mind lol But here are a few of my fav IG pages and i think you should check them out. From entertainment, to comedy, fashion, business, and so much more. THIS IS NOT ANY FORM OF MARKETING. The following are just a few of the over 1000 IGs i'm following lol

 @fabulousbytejupretty 

@experiencezazaii

@nigerianfashionblogger_

@accostcollection

@tucabello 

@jbiliving

@houseoft.o.k

@ayabaofficial

@funny_nigerian_pics

@poshkollect

@theweddingtv

@kingnahh

@dappernaija

@thebusinesseducator

@krakshq

@ideaincredible

@versitlebay

@futuresoftng

@chudeity

@glambrandagency

@anthonycuts

@preweddingnaija

@chief_obi

@@jiggzytos

@genevievemagazine

@timidakolo

@emrmarketing

@bois_olorun

@zashadu

@sugarweddings 

@wimbizng

@mayowaekpo

@thegodlycouple

@callmeskitzo

@chef_fregz

@okadabooks

@hotweddings24

@loveweddingsng

@isaac_bholu

@pulsenigeria247

@comedianebiye

@aphricanape06

@onlyinnigeria

@joroolumofin

@nothingtodoinlagos

@krakstv

@therealfemi

@uchennaji

@crazeclown 

@nedu_wazobia

@obstreetstyle

@eonline

@tobbiestouch

@ndanitv

Lemme stop here, till a next time 

Social Media Commenters

Hi all,

Been a minute, decide to stop the apologies, excuses and promises this year. So if you see here, very good,  you're most welcome to share my thoughts with you.

Recently, I've realized that a lot people are so fearful and insecure. I observed most especially with the social media buzz of freedom, how people are so quick to judge and bring people down. My Bible says, "the power of life and death is in the tongue" and it also says, "as a man thinks in his heart so is he". So, safe to say there is power in our mind and what we say with our mouth.

Scrolling through any of my social media page and i come across some very hateful, down-casting and judgmental comments on people's posts and I'm like, "why  so much hatred?!", and some other times i come across some seemingly "love hate" comments. And I'm wondering where are all these coming from. Its either they hate and are quick to judge or they throw "shady Love" that are not real in anyway. All the above mentioned are derailing in so many negative ways;
1. Its either the person being commented about suddenly gets a fame beget by lies
2. The person being commented about gets discouraged, fearful or even loose drive
3. Even the "commenter" looses a real sense of "self" and true individual identity.

Social media should not be a hate haven or a mask to bring people down under the guise of "freedom of speech or expression". I honestly find it difficult to make comments on some posts on social media cos I wouldn't want to be part of the "hate commenters gang" (*in @iamkanmi voice, check him out on IG he's hilarious). The world is full of so many coax on its own, lets not add hate or fake love to it. And remember also no matter how good or bad, you get whatever you give *please ensure its good.

If you need to make any comment, share with a simple open mind and not with the intention to bring anyone down.
Don't intend to say so much today, just thought i drop this here after all these while.
Till a next Time